Getting a girlfriend isn’t easy for most guys. Most men don’t know where to go to meet women, what they want from a woman, or even what they want from a relationship. But once you do find a great woman the advantages are great. You will be able to stop all this time waisting on women who aren’t suitable for you. Were going to take a look at a 5 step system that will help you find your dream girl.

Step 1: What Do You Want From A Relationship?

The first thing you need to decide is what you are looking for in a relationship. What would your ideal relationship be like? How will this relationship effect your life? What are your relationship needs? If a woman doesn’t meet your needs then she won’t make a good girlfriend for you.

Step 2: What Kind Of Woman Do You Want?

Some guys like short-term flings so that they don’t have to worry about what to look for in a woman. But for a good relationship you do need to worry about what you want in a woman.

What you should do is come up with a list of things that you want from a woman. It helps to even look at your own behavior. If your a neat freak then you may want a woman who is a neat freak. If you want a family type girl then you wont want to date a woman who hates her own family. Write a list of things you like or don’t like then be aware of those things when dating.

Step 3: Where Can I Meet Her?

Just about anywhere. However, some places are better then others. If you hate party girls then don’t bother going to bars. If you like dancing then taking dancing lessons will be great. If you like outdoorsy type women then get outside. If you prefer to meet women in the day then go to the mall. Basically, you want to go to places that make it easy for you to meet women. You don’t have to go to tall the normal places.

Step 4: How Do I Approach Her?

When you know what kind of woman you want, and where to find her, approaching becomes much easier. You simply talk about things that you can both easily relate too. At the beach you could ask her if she wants to play volleyball. At the bookstore you ask her for an opinion on a good book. This gets gets the conversation started easily.

Step 5: How Do I Get Her Contact Information?

You can get her number fairly quickly if you want to. However, I recommend that you try to keep the conversation going for awhile. This pays off later when you are trying to make plans with her. In short it helps reduce flaks. You can try something like this. “I want to see you again. Put your number into my cell.”

Where To Go From Here

At this point moving forward you should be repeating the process. You don’t put all your effort into one woman until you are at the relationship stage. This is why it is called dating. You need to see what is out there and what your options are. Feel free to let the women know that you are dating other women at this time. This shows them that you respect them and that you are a man of integrity.